How To Tell If a Guy Likes You

Byon May 28, 2014

在一个或另一个人,每个女人都问过自己:他喜欢我吗?这是我们可以提出自己的最令人困惑,令人讨厌和紧张的问题之一,但这是我们不断努力弄清楚的东西。使这个问题有点简单,并通过这25种方法来判断你需要的答案,告诉他是否真的喜欢你 - 或者看到你就像朋友一样。


1.He Seems to Smile at You. A Lot.

Don’t get me wrong. There’s always those people out there who smile at everybody and everything. They’ll smile at strangers, they’ll smile at the silliest jokes- they’ll even smile during a physics quiz. If you’re talking to a guy who has one of those never-ending smiles, he might just be doing what’s natural to him by smiling at you often.

But let’s face it: most people aren’t like that. If you catch him smiling at you often, it may be a sign that he’s into you and the sight of your face brings a smile to his lips. Pay close attention to his smile, too. Is it one of those fake, forceful smiles? Or is it a genuine smile full of love? This will really help you determine whether or not it’s a true, “I like you” smile.


记得在那一天学校里当boys would chase the girls and call them names, and everyone said it’s because he likes you? It may seem so kindergarten, but even in our later years men still use teasing as a form of flirting. If he (playfully) teases you often, then it could be a sign he’s going back to his roots and using teases to show he’s interested in you. Of course, if he is just being flat out rude about something than he’s probably not into you- in a girlfriend or a friend way- and I suggest you run for the hills.


3.Flirty Compliments That Leave You Blushing

另一方面,也许你和一个经历过戏弄伎俩的人说话,实际上知道如何调情。如果他赞美你们很多 - 无论是对你的头发看起来有多好看的简单恭维,或者你对你的口头呈现有多伟大 - 这可能是他对你感兴趣的明确标志。

I mean, yes- it’s completely true that people will compliment each other on a job well done or a nice t-shirt. But a compliment is one thing, a flirt is another. Surely you can tell the difference by the way it’s said and what words are used. For example:


Flirty compliment: That shirt looks great on you. (Smile)

See the difference?


4. Playful, Accidental Touching


-Running up behind you and picking you up for a fun hug.

-‘Accidentally’ brushing your hand while the two of you work on a project together.

-Wanting to play a silly game like thumb wars or arm wrestling.

-Patting you on your thigh after talking to you while sitting down.


We all know how much men hate to talk on the phone. When you ask them to call you, it’s like pulling teeth. Or perhaps even a root canal. Without any medication for numbing. (Yes, it’sthatbad sometimes, right ladies?). But for some reason he will call you completely out of the blue, just to talk. And he actually enjoys it and says he’s had a nice time talking to you. No, he hasn’t been abducted by space aliens that changed the wiring in his brain. It’s as simple as this: man likes woman, man goes to great lengths to show that he cares. Which brings us to the random phone calls where you spend 6 hours talking about movies, sports, music, clothes, school, celebrities- whatever. So go ahead, pick up the phone. He surely didn’t call you because he hates talking to you!


6. Not Just Your Basic Text Messages




Flirty text: “Hey Molly. How are you doing? I was wondering if you were going to go to Mark’s party. Can’t wait to see you!”


When a guy likes a girl, he tries to impress her- we all know that! But sometimes it’s not always about incredible out of this world gestures to grab our attention and impress us, and that’s why we need to pay attention to details. If he tends to talk in slang often but really tries hard to use proper grammar and punctuation when talking/messaging you, it could be a simple sign he’s trying to impress you with his mind. Here’s an example, using the text messages used in number 6:

Friendly text: “Wassup u coming to Mark’s party?”

Flirty text: “Hey Molly. How are you doing? I was wondering if you were going to go to Mark’s party. Can’t wait to see you!”






9。Make it or Break it: Eye Contact

You’ve probably heard this over and over again, but eye contact is ridiculously important, from first dates to job interviews. If you notice he’s looking at you often and makes it a point to have eye contact with you while the two of you are talking, this not only means he likes what he sees but is trying to get you to notice him as well.

Friend: Will obviously talk to you, but will probably be looking around the room or interrupting your conversation to holler at another friend. He probably won’t randomly stare at you with hearts in his eyes, either.

More than a friend: Will make it a point to focus on you and only you during conversation, and you will probably catch him staring at you often. (And he might have his jaw dropped sometimes, too- it happens).


10.Him? Sophisticated and Mature? No Way!


11.Girl? What Girl?

When you are friends with a guy, you get used to that fact that they will probably be checking out females often. They might even make a remark to you about how cute they think the girl that just walked by is. And they won’t have a problem telling you that they’re planning on seeing Samantha from the coffee shop down the road. But if he’s interested in you and wants to be more than friends, you won’t hear a single peep out of him with regards to another female. In fact, you might notice a pretty girl walking by quicker than he does.

If you notice he doesn’t really say anything about girls or dating anyone anytime soon, you might want to ask him if he is interested in anyone. His answer will say it all!

12.Curious About Your Relationship Status

When you’re just friends, it really doesn’t matter whether you are married with three kids or never been on a date in your life. Nobody really asks, and why should they? The two of you just go out as friends having a good time- nothing else. But if your guy friend wants to know about your relationship status is or if you’re interested in anyone, he could be trying to ease his way into becoming your boyfriend. If he asks you what a guy would have to do to get you to be his girlfriend, you can definitely take this as a sign he wants you as more than just a friend.




That being said, if your guy pal kids about you and him being an item, he might actually want it to happen. For example:

The two of you are playing video games and suddenly start laughing out loud about a joke only the two of you would find funny. As the wave of laughter comes to an end, he jokingly says “We would make the perfect couple.” Let’s face it ladies, he probably isn’t joking. And if this kind of thing happens somewhat often, I’d take that as a definite sign he wants you.

14. Where Are You Two Going?

密切关注你们的位置。你做基本朋友的事情,就像一起去派对,闲逛市中心,或者用你的其他朋友做很多其他的小组活动?或者你的环聊有点浪漫,只有你们两个?如果您的冒险大部分是集团完成的,那么您可能只是朋友 - 或者他正在努力不要这么明显。但如果他要求你在一件事上做很多事情,他可能会试图更好地了解你,看看你们两个是在天堂制作的比赛。



There is a huge, huge, huge difference between doing a friend a favor, and doing something especially sweet for someone. If he gave you a ride home from work one day, I wouldn’t get carried away and assume he likes you. But if he does a lot of nice things for you on a regular basis, like buying you those special shoes you couldn’t afford or offering to pick you up from work every single night, there might be more to it than just a friendly gesture. Pay close attention to this, as this can sometimes get confusing. You wouldn’t want to mistake kindness for love!


It’s the male instinct to protect the woman you love- and if you notice he is acting more like your knight in shining armor than your best guy friend, it’s a possibility he’s into you. It could be as simple as telling some people to stop saying mean things about you to completely going berserk on a guy who shoved you in public. Whatever his knightly duty was, don’t take it lightly. He not only did this to protect you, but impress you and show he cares for you and your safety.


17. The Green Monster Pays a Visit

When you like someone, you get jealous- that’s nature. Whether it’s an innocent flirt or they are talking about being with someone else, the little green monster pops his head up instantly. If he gets jealous about you talking with other guys or mentioning other guys, this is a definite clue he likes you.




19。Are You Impressed Yet?

As we’ve said so many times before (and you’ve probably known for quite some time), men love to impress females- especially ones they are interested in. If he seems to try to impress you, whether it’s with his clothing or picking up a giant boulder *right in front of you*, he’s probably trying to get you to notice him in a way other than friendly.



This kind of goes hand in hand with doing favors for you more than the average friend. But if he seems willing to do certain tasks- even the most boring or hard like changing your oil or fixing your broken glass window- this is a sure sign he likes you. Plus he gets to show off how manly and handy he is. Double win!

21Just a Few More Minutes..



22.Asking Friends and Family for Help

There is no better way to get to know someone than by asking around. If he’s asked your friends and family members questions trying to get to know you better, I’d take that as a very obvious sign he is wanting to be more than friends. Some common questions he might ask those closest to you include the following:

- 她有一个男朋友吗?

-What kind of guys is she interested in?

-What are some of her favorite things to do?

-Any idea what her dream date is like?

不要惊讶,如果有人接近你这么说and so has been asking questions. It’s not weird, he just really wants to know more about you and surprise you with something he knows you would absolutely love. That’s great investigating and really shows that he’ll go the extra mile to learn about you!



Your guy friend just kissed you. Like, woah. Completely out of nowhere. You two were walking home from the party and he grabbed you and kissed you. You were left completely speechless. And, you know what, this really doesn’t need further explanation. Either he was drunk out of his mind or he’s been wanting to kiss you for awhile.

24.“I Like You.”

If he flat out tells you he likes you, then, well, he likes you. And that’s that. No more questioning or wondering. It’s pretty much all on the table at that point, and it’s up to you to decide how you will react. At least you won’t have that lingering question in the back of your mind, right? Even if it’s totally awkward, it’s a huge relief off of your shoulders- and that’s something to be thankful about. Let’s just hope the guy you’re friends with has the guts to come out and tell it like it is! (Yes, men, we totally appreciate a guy who does this. Be brave!)



That’s right. Sometimes enough is enough and you just need ANSWERS. If he isn’t budging, just ask him to tell you so you can quit wondering.

It can be torture sitting around wondering if your guy pal wishes the two of you were ‘more than friends’. It doesn’t have to be hard, though. With subtle hints like playfully teasing and touching to going out of his way to do you awesome favors, there’s plenty of ways you can put your curiosity to rest- and possibly land yourself a boyfriend.

女士们 - 那个家伙朋友已证明是什么,他想要不仅仅是朋友的好方法?


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      March 20, 2020 at 6:45 pm

      如果他和其他女性做同样的事情riends, then it’s going to be really hard to tell if he is interested or not. If you like him, hanging out with him and getting to know him better may be the only way you can end up finding out if he likes you back or not. Good luck, MJ!

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    – You can tell whether a guy likes you or not just by looking at his body language. If he is interested in you then he will lean towards you and not on opposite direction, he will try to find excuses to touch you, he will listen to whatever you say, etc.
    – Guy’s get nervous around girls they like, same as how a girl gets nervous whenever she is around her crush.
    - 这个家伙不会把目光从你身上移开,一个明确的迹象表明他的兴趣。
    – He will give his complete attention towards you whenever you are in a party or a crowded place.
    – He is not hesitant to introduce you to his friends and family.
    – He will constantly try to keep in touch with you through calls or text.

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      i got a best friend i like and his name us Kaden Tidwell and he is in 7th grade and his age is 12 and i asked him if he liked me as a girlfriend and he said no and i asked him out and he said no what should i do ?

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    July 24, 2019 at 12:25 am

    I got this one friend on an online game and we met each other last year in March and he took me he liked me back in October of 2018 and then we didn’t get together for some reason and then he didn’t get online for more than 3 months and he would get on sometimes and so after that I decided to get over him and I was thinking of sending him his last message before I forget about him and he got on just the other day and last night I waited for him but he didnt get on so I slept and then in the morning I saw his message but then today I waited again and he didn’t get on but the day I messaged him we were talking for 2 hours and then I went to sleep I’d like to know if he still likes me or not while we were talking Random girls were going to him and asking about me and he although compliments me saying ew and all said I was his I don’t have it in me to tell him I like him we both know a lot about each other and we do have each other on social media I’m really confused and he’s really cute he also doesn’t think I’m ugly he’s also very sweet and caring when it comes to me he has a nickname for me it’s my name shortened

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      他的行为是他被你吸引的迹象表明。He likely wants to maintain a relationship with you. It seems like he is shy. It is possible that he is uncertain or confused about your feelings toward him. Make a decision about what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Lucy!

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      January 9, 2020 at 10:03 am

      my best friend Kaden won’t date me he says no to us dating

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    May 18, 2019 at 9:28 am

    What does it mean?

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      May 18, 2019 at 5:27 pm


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        我们1.5年前,还没有毕业contact. I know for a fact that some of our common friends once mentioned that you are the kind of wife he would like to have, yet he did not take the step forward?
        I myself am really shy to take the first step, what if it is not as i think or just being really nice to me because I am a shy person or a quite person?

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    2019年4月29日11:27 AM

    One day as i entered the bus he was eating a apple and he asked me if i need a bite from it and i told him “no” he repeated the same thing 3 times and i denied it 3 times (even though both of us were laughing).After that the next day he didn’t talk much to me other than joking with me just once..
    The next day after i entered and sat in the front side seat of the bus, he adjusted his rear view mirror such a way that i can fully see his face (almost full mirror was his complete face from my view) and even we had eye contact through mirror once but i was so nervous and didn’t look in the mirror after that..
    The next day onward he is ignoring me completely,,even if i talked to him he just gave me one word answers so i didn’t talk anymore…i don’t know why he started avoiding me and is not talking to it because he didn’t like me and i was just overthinking all this stuffs or does he likes me??should i ask him??because its hurts me a lot when he is ignoring me..
    I too ignored him the next day.,after that he talked to me soo much the next day and made me repeat something i told him again and again till i got annoyed and hit him on his shoulder and after me hitting him he smiles at me..

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      His behaviors are indications that he is interested in you, but he is uncertain about your feelings toward him. It is possible that he does not know how to move forward. He likely does not want to be unprofessional or inappropriate with his actions. Make a decision about what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Elsa!

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    March 16, 2019 at 12:36 pm

    So my boss winked at me,then came really close to me and stared straight into my eyes for couple of seconds.Then sent me a message(a professional one)whilst I was still working and told me off for not answering him.Then said that I have lovely lips and soon after came near me and did “I am watching you gesture”.I think he might like me.

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    So i have this friend, i’ve known him this year, we didn’t use to talk or something but i always catched him looking at me, helping me when i didn’t ask for… one day he asked for my number, i said no and he got a little bit mad. I felt sad because i hurted him so i sent him a friend request on fb, i told him sorry and he said no problem. The next day, we talked and he asked for my number again, i gave it to him finally. So we started talking on WhatsApp for 2 days, the 3rd day i didn’t talk to him, and it was school tomorrow, we were in a group of friend at school, he said: (name of another girl)and i(him) didn’t stop texting yesterday, you (me) forgot me! I just laughed. So ws’re now best friends and everyone thinks we’re dating or something, we sometimes fight, he tells me :whatever you do i’ll always forgive you, and even if it was your falut i’ll say that i’m so sorry. So lately, he told me : Paris(he knows that i like it), i answered :yup, he said: love u. We continued talking normally and the next day, he texted me : i looooooooove youu, i told him i love him too,but jokingly even if i really love him. The next day at school, he ignored me completely. I was sick, and when he came back home, he texted me:i wish you’re always sick, i told him why ? He said: you look so cute, i swear that you look so cuuute with those emojies ❤❤

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      March 10, 2019 at 5:43 pm

      He feels a strong social and emotional connection with you. It is likely that he wants to nourish this relationship. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Spend additional time with him in person to strengthen your relationship. Have a great day, Paris!

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        March 11, 2019 at 5:56 am

        we sometimes talk on the phone and talk about normal stuff, one time my father was there, he stopped the call, when i asked him why, he said because i love you i don’t want you to be in trouble.

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          March 12, 2019 at 12:46 pm

          He feels a strong emotional connection with you. His behaviors are signs that he wants to nourish this relationship. The name on your ruler and his negative response are signs that he may be uncertain about this relationship. If the ruler incident happened recently, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. The name on the ruler could have been written by someone who has feelings for you as well. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Paris!

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        March 30, 2019 at 3:58 pm

        Been trying to find the right comment box. Ill start off saying now im a bit older than most who probably read these things, im not very expierenced at all. Only liked 3 guys in my lifetime. I have literally no condidence, have a lot of issues(im working on) i dont wear make up (through choice, if a guy dont like me then im. Not changing for him) . Ive been going to this group thing where we play cards in like forever, im. Quite friendly with everyone and they all know me and my background its the one place i do have some confidence.

        大约一年前这个新人开始了,我很好奇。我们开始聊天。关闭。他似乎在开始时似乎很害羞,所以我想思考我帮助他和每个人都融入。我变得遭到了他的痛苦,开始看着他(在一个人在一个角度来看,我注意到自己注意到但是idk)有时他会说奇怪的事情然后其他时候诅咒害羞。即使我喜欢他,我很快就会很快地依恋,一旦我喜欢某人,我倾向于真的喜欢他们,但我试图平静下来。我试图了解更多关于他的关于他,事实证明他是那个跑东西的孙子,哈哈,我问他以前但是我问的那个人说他是我认为的20/21。So i tried to act cool around him (he doesn’t go to them all, so i often go for over a month without seeing him) i also figured out hes related to someone else who runs his local but i dont know if shes his aunt or mother (more likely aunt since her fb shows two kids?) but shes really nice and seems quite protective of at the end of june last year i was there till the very end, i won the competition and he was really suppportive and told her he wanted to stay to watch (ive since seen him around others and he didnt seem as enthusiastic) and hed turned round to smile at me properly so i tried being cool again. I asked the woman his age abd it turned out he was a lot younger than we thought (hes now a year older) so that was it before the summer and i tried my best to forget about him.

        Cut a story short the next time i saw him in September i ended up with laryngitis so i couldnt speak to him at all, which was some kind of relief. He seemed really interested and caring, even listening to my mum talking about it. He asked the week after if i was speaking again and wanted to make sure i was he didnt turn up after that as something happened to one of his younger relatives so he didnt come for a while. i was going sway again and when i saw him again, i tried walking away from him but he called me back and asked where i was and again seemed interested. I saw him one time aftet that and for the first time ever we sat at break. He was completely mute and pretty much avoided me, even looking at the people beside me as if i wasnt there lol. I did try to engage with him but its hard lol next, it was the Xmas ones and it was two nights in a row. So the first night we spoke a bit and as he helps out i dont drink tea or coffee etc so he brought 3 cups over and i presumed he knew i didnt, he brought the 4th one over and i said i dont drink tea sure lol and he whispered behind me just to leave it then ran away he came over to speak to his relative who was on my table and went out of his way to speak to me, then he was playing to my mum (CRINGE) and he turned to me to say shed beaten me at the end we bumped into each other and he walked by me so slowly so he didnt touch me (is it not possible if someone liked you they wil avoid touching you cos it would be harder to ignore they like you??) he didnt say a word.. I felt like he’d noticed me and we was tHE only two people in the roOm (CORNY I KNOW) so the next night comes… HE BARELY SAYS A WORD ALL NIGHT we even sat out and he only sat down for a minute spoke two words then got up again i won a prize so i joked with him what it was and he joked it was £100 i said it again and hed done the same thing only this time smiled at me like a cheshire cat for more than a few minutes (felt like forever). . He went outside which made me paranoid as it was the same guy i asked about his age. He came back in and i told him it was my bday here next month, he continuly asked what date so i said mine… And his bdays only 3 days after mine i was slightly dissapointed he didnt remember the next week, but he seemed tired

        所以我的希望在我的bday上刺激了,他甚至让我蛋糕了。是如此努力。我甚至没有看到他另一个月,只有偶然偶然看到他,当我去找一个时,我通常不会去(我再次走开),我相信自己注意到我,他在嘲笑门,似乎真的很开心但是,当我以为他看到我的时候,当我们看到我的时候,当我们互相玩耍时,他又一次地说了他真的很安静,他说出我的名字真的拖出了一个我做错了(他是如此分散注意力!!!)。我稍后一周见过他,这次他有点健谈。另一个人没有去这样,所以我问他的兄弟和我的家伙去(是的,我知道他不是因为他打电话给奶奶),就像他试图inpreess一样听起来像是响起的。休息后,我有一杯水,有人问我如果我已经完成了,他会渴望,我意外地脱掉了我很热!(畏缩)一段时间后来我走到我的座位上,他站在桌子上,他迅速转过身来,看到我然后跑到他的椅子上把他的卡片扔在我旁边(就像到底谁一样?)然后开始向我蜿蜒来,声称我整夜殴打他(当我说的时候)即使我说过,他已经再次重复了它。 When he was collecting the money i asked him if my mum payed for me and he whispered, yeah barely looking at me the whole time.
        结束的时候晚上我又说服自己he was looking at me, i wasnt looking at him to begin with but when i turned round i thought he was. Didnt see him again till this month and he was quiet both times despite me trying to talk to him the first time(the other guy was on our table and they were talking a lot) , he then came down to my side while i was sitting on the chair (he tidies up) i didnt expect this at all as he is pretty smart and should know i was sitting on the chair lol he asked twice despite me answering the first time, i accidently yelled a litle bit and he ran away qickly again seemed a bit frustrated

        Other things i forgot he asked me y i wasnt speaking , someone said i wasnt well and he said you look a bit white. He always looks up at me with his eye wide open, and sometimes looks me up and down on my face
        Ive been paranoid hes been playing me or doing it for a bet, but wouldnt he make more of an effort instead of being mute all the time, he could get me alone anytime.( would ve devastated if the guy i asked his age did this as hes like an older brother to me)
        He always seemes to pay attention to me but sometimes barely looks at me only when he has to
        He says my name a LOT a lot more than he has to even more than my own parents do!

        Hes a farmer and I found out he goes dancing. I was worried he was gay but i looked him up (i know i shouldnt but was curious lol) nothing on his fb but his instagram suggested straight and mum knows i like him. And hasnt said she thinks hes gay. Didnt think he has a gf till last week when he didnt sit down on break and was on his phone a lot and heard his relative say her

        I feel silly for doing this but im desperate for answers.its driving me mad

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            Did you even read it or is this an automatic response i am trying to figure out if he likes me and or if there is potential for us to go out or would i just be embarrassing myself

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              January 9, 2020 at 10:05 am

              my best friend Kaden says no to me about us being boyfriend and girlfriend but he told my friend Erica he will think about it . and when i said hi to him and he smiled and said hi back is that flirting ?

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      I know a guy who works at my job but in a different department. One day we just started talking and then exchange numbers. He text me and asked me How was I doing? I said fine . Then he said how are you? I said I’m good. He then called me and he said did I have a boyfriend , do I have kids , do I live by myself, and what city do I live in My answers were NO, and I told.him what city I lvie in. After all that he told me he was married, and I told him thank you for being honest I respect him of his honesty.He then said I’m so Humble and my the way my voice is so calm. Until this day he always says Hi to me and tells me he likes talking with me. He said he was having issues with his cell phone not getting Messages etc. And I told him that I sent him a message but it was about weight loss because were both into loosing weight. He told me when I said I sent him a text he said ” That it was fine I message him as Long as I DIDN’T tell him That i love him he started laughing because he would get in trouble ” Then he said were friends right? I said no I wouldn’t send a message like that. Then we still was on the topic of weight loss and what types of food were eating etc. Then I asked him do he like water and lemon? He said “HE LIKES EVERYTHING!!! And he winked his left eye at me and 2x in in the same day he reached out to.shake my hand. Can you tell me what’s REALLY going on with This situation?

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