14 Signs Your Guy Means It When He Says “I Love You”


There is truly nothing more special in this world than love. It’s an intense, divine feeling that gives us warmth in our hearts, but chills down our spine. Seeing the person you love is like seeing an angel straight from heaven, while hearing those three little words ‘I love you’ makes us stop dead in our tracks, melting in an instant. Love can be complicated though, too, especially when someone says it butdoesn’t truly mean it.那么你怎么能告诉一个人吗?真的means it when he tells you those three special words? We’re going to dive into the world of love and expose all of the signs that your guy really means it when he says ‘I love you’.


It’s unfortunate, but sometimes men (and women too!) say ‘I love you’ without really meaning it. It’s a shame and truly something that messes with the heart on the other end, but to help reduce the risks of being played into a fake love, we are going to give you the three top reasons a man might say ‘I love you’ without meaning it.

He Wants to Get Into Your Pants

It’s unfortunate, but almost every man on planet earth knows that a woman is an emotional creature that is more likely to ‘give it up’ if she feels a man is in love with her. A lot of men use this ‘trick’ on women to get them into bed, then afterwards they’re up and leaving. It’s important to notice when a man is just saying ‘I love you’ to sleep with you- it’s pretty obvious if he does it while you guys are heating things up or when he’s obviously turned on and touching you every which way.

He Feels Forced to Say It


Fourteen Reasons He is Being Real



主要的ity of men不喜欢说'我爱你'。It may be that they are scared, they don’t want to come across as needy, they are afraid of rejection, or simply their ego doesn’t want them to be the one being all emotional. Some men are even afraid of being in love时期。所有这些都让一个男人终于说出了大的'l'的话,所以如果你的家伙是第一个说出来的话,你可以放心,他可能是他的感受真的;特别是如果他在性交之前或之后都不这样做。


With some people you can just告诉当他们是真的。也许他们有一定的方式说出他们真正意味着的东西,或者他们的肢体语言都表现出来。当他终于告诉你他爱你时,请密切关注他实际出现的真实性。注意他的肢体语言从头到脚趾,当他说它时,真的很好地看着他。


One quick and easy way to judge a man’s authenticity when he tells you he loves you is to notice where his eyes are. Is he looking at the ground, trying to avoid eye contact altogether? He could either be really, really nervous or simply not mean it at all. But nine times out of ten, when a man is truly in love and ready to say the words, he will look deep into the eye’s of his woman to ensure he has her full attention when he tells her such an important thing. So when the time comes for ‘I love you’, make sure his eyes are locked on you. His eyes should be as if they are looking deep into your soul, telling every inch of your body that the love is meaningful and true.


一个人的爱不需要被提示say ‘I love you’, and once they get comfortable saying it, they will want to say it all the time. His love will happen at random when you are least expecting it, because he wants you to know he is being for real and he wants to make you smile as much as he possibly can. And he absolutely won’t leave the love to only ‘I love you too’s when you guys are talking.


Men that are truly in love with their lady want to hold them close all the time; not just when you guys are getting ready to kiss or watching a movie, but all the time. It’s only natural! I mean think about it: when you truly love something or someone, you want it next to you all the time and you just want to feel close; that is exactly how a guy feels when he falls in love with a woman. They simply can’t get enough of their touch, and after an embrace, it is hard for them to let go.


让我们刚刚诚实地诚实:一个人对你来说不是一个百分点,绝对不爱你将不会和你谈谈未来!他们没有wanta future with you and they are still holding out for the woman of their dreams to finally make a solid commitment to. So, if your guy is talking about the future- whether it’s the kind of house you two want or a vacation you should take during the summertime, take that as a big indication he is truly in love with you and wants you to stick around for a very long time.


There’s a big difference between a peck on the lips and a passionate kiss, and an ‘I love you’ should only be ended with a long, passionate kiss, where the love is being strewn up and down your spine as your tongues press against each other in a remarkable way. It’s the kiss where you can almost see fireworks, the one that melts your entire being. That’s the passionate ‘I love you’ kiss you will only receive from a man that is truly in love with you.


So you want to watch a terrible chick flick and he obviously would rather watch grass grow? But yet he watches it anyways? It must be love. So your back kind of hurts, but you don’t want to go get a massage? He will massage it for you. So he sends you an adorable text message just to light up your day when you are halfway through work? These are all things a man will do for his woman that he truly loves with all of his heart.

Is Jealous

当他们恋爱时,男人和女人会嫉妒。如果你的男朋友不在乎一个人正在和你调情或者他可能已经注意到你的脸上的眉毛,那么他可能不在乎youat all. Jealousy just goes hand-in-hand with being in love; it sucks, but is certainly is true!



Smiles Genuinely At You

You know that big smile a guy does when he is staring into your eyes like you’re the most beautiful woman in the world? Yup, that is the smile of a man who is smitten.






Sometimes the best way to know if something is genuine or fake is to use your own judgment. We all have intuitions, and if yours is telling you that he is really in love with you, you may be right. On the other hand, if everything just seems ‘off’ and ‘not real’, then pay close attention to him and figure out what the truth really is. Either way you need to follow your heart.



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    April 10, 2019 at 6:49 am

    so Im in 8th grade and my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months and he always texts me that he loves me. I dont know why but I always feel weird when he tells me/ texts me saying he loves me. I dont know what to do. I need help!!

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      你的伴侣对你表达他的感情。The feelings that you have regarding his behaviors are reflections of fears or concerns that you may have. There is no reason to have negative emotions related to his expression of love. If you care for your partner and want to nourish this relationship, then spend additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Random!

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    March 27, 2019 at 2:08 am


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      The two of you share a strong social and emotional relationship. He is interested in nourishing a physical relationship with you. If you are not ready to have sex, then be clear with him about your thoughts and feelings. Since the two of you are close, he should respect your needs. If he treats you poorly, then you will be aware of his intentions. If you decide that you are ready for a physical relationship, then inform him of your feelings. Have a great day, Brilliant!

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    我的男朋友和我难以互相摔倒,是的,我们正在上学。我还没有性活跃,他是。所以他告诉我他非常快速和先爱我。我们每天都在一起度过每一分钟,但只在放学后。我会质疑为什么他会和这个其他女孩坐在一起,他会说他们只是朋友。我是信任的善良,不会试图强迫某人忠诚。我知道他爱我,因为我可以看到他的脸,他对我谈话的方式,对待我,买我的花朵,关心我的兴趣,有计划与我的未来等。所以我发现了几个月我发现了他一直在欺骗他的其他女孩,因为她一直在和他睡觉。他只度过了她一个月两次的时间,我知道,因为他在别的外和我在一起。当我发现我被摧毁并走开了。 But I am still madly in love with him. It’s been a year and I still cry when I see him or hear his name dispute trying to move on. A couple of weeks ago we saw each other and our eyes locked for about 5 minutes. My friends said you can see his love for me all over his face and his eyes and they’re jealous. Then two days later he started texting me again. He is still dating this girl that he sleeps with but has told me he isn’t happy with her and that fact is obvious. Could see that long before he admitted it. But now he seems like he doesn’t want to accept his own feelings. I have told him how i feel but he just says he once loved me but things change. Is he just still hurting, angry or really not in love woth me any more. If literary everyone around us can see it why can’t He? I am so confused.

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    March 26, 2019 at 9:35 am

    所以我的男朋友和我彼此摔倒了,是的,我们年轻,还在学校。他告诉我他先爱着我,我可以在他眼中看到它,微笑他对待我的方式,我们几乎没有在学校一起度过。我还没有性活跃,但他是。所以我发现了大约五个月的时间,我发现他一直在欺骗一个和他一起睡觉的女孩。我离开但仍然爱他。这是一年,我每次看到他时仍然崩溃了。当我们彼此的眼睛射击时,我们无法停止盯着对方的眼睛。我所有的朋友都说他们可以看到他的眼睛看着他对我有多爱,这实际上是在他的脸上写的。我们最近发生了两天,两天后他正在发短信给我,但他仍然否认他关心或者甚至都爱我,他还在约会他一直在睡觉的女孩。只有他说她不会让他开心,你可以判断他们在一起,他显然对她不满意。 He statted to open up and I have told him how i feel but he shut down again and now won’t open up and say the truth.

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      February 11, 2019 at 1:01 pm


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      January 8, 2019 at 5:12 pm

      The two of you are developing your relationship. When each of you feel that it is appropriate to speak about love, then you will do so. For now, continue to nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to do the same. Have a great day, Mercedes!

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    So theres this guy I met about a month ago. I at first didnt feel anything for him. It took me the second day to fall for him. It took him the fourthday to fall for me, however he did tell me a week or so in thathe would need space and a break from our relationship. Totally understandable seeing as that before he met me, he was in a 9 year relationship and it had ended 3 days prior to meeting me. He was deeply hurt by the girl and I wanted to flexible with him and to gain his trust so I agreed. At times he still feels hurt about his ex and I try to change his mindset and create new memories with him. I give him space when he needs it but try to be available as well. So 3 weeks in, last night he told me he loved me. Im usually the one who says I love you first however yesterday he said it to me and randomly. We talking about something unrelated to our relationship. I feel that he is the most genuine with me and is completely open with me. Because when I video call him or call him in general hes really either really happy or smiley; he also told me that he loves how i am and my affection. Should I be worried that Im just a rebound?

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      November 27, 2018 at 9:22 pm


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      Don’t know if you’ll see this or not or what happened to you and him, but CAUTION is the key here.
      我的X丈夫在他的50年代和三个事务中经历了他的中期危机,即使我们结婚34.5岁。他的第三个女性是他留下了他留下的人和嫁给她(在反弹)中只有4个MOS。在我们分手并在6月获得离婚后。到10月底,他已经嫁给了她。哦,善良,谨慎这就是它。b / c你永远不知道。

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        January 6, 2019 at 11:37 pm

        Thank you for sharing your experiences and insights. It is certainly beneficial for members of our community to hear the thoughts and feelings of other community members. Please share more of your supportive comments in the future. Have a great day, Wandakate!

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    So my boyfriend and I have been dating for more than a month, things got pretty heated up between us and we ended up getting together and we did some things, and we became more attached, but afterwards one of his friends started talking badly about me and saying I was a snitch and that I got him into some huge trouble when I didn’t and now my boyfriend won’t even acknowledge me, what do I do?

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      November 14, 2018 at 8:46 pm

      Your boyfriend has chosen to not speak with you. This may mean that he is no longer interested in maintaining a relationship with you. His friend likely caused him to feel this way. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. If he ignores you or treats you poorly, then there is no reason to continue to nourish this relationship. Have a great day, Confused!

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    This boy I’ve been really close friends with the past three years, although I haven’t seen him in two years, we have a tight relationship and looking forward to see eachother. Iconsider him a Brother. We say “I love you” to each other often enough to know we are there for each other through our tough times, but sometimes he says it twice in a single text. So maybe he really does? And he texts me day And night checking in on me. Should I consider that he likes me back?

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      The two of you share a strong social and emotional relationship. He may be interested in nourishing a romantic relationship with you. He may view you as a close friend and is interested in sharing his kindness and compassion. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him opportunities to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Abby!

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      September 15, 2018 at 4:31 pm

      You are certain that he has cheated on you. This means that he is not interested in respecting you or your relationship. Take this time to determine if you believe is behavior is appropriate. Decide what kind of relationship you want to nourish. Allow thoughts of him to fade and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Determine what you want for your future without him. Have a great day, Chloe!

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    September 13, 2018 at 5:08 am

    There is this boy that im dating and he feels that he will get bullied if he and i will be dating tomorw

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    这是一种doosey。一个男人在约会网站上找到我。我在美国的一边,他在另一侧。我们都经历了硬离婚。我们每天都来回发短信。他告诉我,我先爱你,我花了一点,但最终我告诉他。你让我陷入困境,每天都在爱情。他告诉我他所有的心灵和灵魂都爱我。这是4-1 / 2个月。他一直独自一人,并告诉我他有点害羞。 We have not spoken yet only texting, still. What should I do?

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      He has shared his thoughts and feelings. He is interested in developing a relationship with you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. You may want to attempt to spend time with him in person. Have a great day, Mo!

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    My boyfriend and I were only friends for about a week before he asked me out, but despite not knowing each other for a long time I have told him EVERYTHING about me and I have never trusted anybody more than him in my life. I have had trust issues for a while because of my parents divorce (Mom cheated for years and then married the guy) and he understands this. He tells me every time I get sad and get the urge (cutting) to immediately call him he doesn’t care if he is at a family members funeral he will be there to talk. And says all he wants to do take me away from everything and be together for a long time.

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      June 2, 2018 at 9:10 pm


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      April 27, 2018 at 10:11 pm


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    there is this guy , even though he denies to love me but deep inside i feel his caring for me , i feel him , as it’s otherwise , even though he says that but his voice not , his talking doesnt say so, he always tells me that he is not a good person , like i should be aware of him , what to do

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    March 16, 2018 at 6:13 am

    So I’ve met someone as i was in holidays and i liked him from the first second…we did lose time we start dating…till the point that he said im leaving in a month and i already like you enough to know that if we continue is gonna be hard for me and we stopped…he went back to England…we were talking now and then and he was trying to make me move to England he knew i wanted to anyway…2 years after brings me to London…half an hour away from him for 2 weeks i was trying to see him but things were difficult moving start a new life and he stopped replying to me…l found an amazing job as i was having drinks in a pub easy..4 months later i decided to text again and he replied on my 2 msg i was thrilled..a day after as it was my day off i jumped in the train to find him and i did happiest day of my life we had e great day and as he was sleeping he claimed on me started to kiss me and said “i love you ” and that happened twice…you think is true or he was just talking random in his sleep cause he does that but i love you twice??

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      March 17, 2018 at 9:45 pm

      It is certainly possible that he has strong feelings for you. He would not have said that if he was sleeping if he didn’t have those feelings. If he was awake, then he was sharing his feelings. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Merry!

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    I kinda freaked out because after almost 3 years, my boyfriend finally said “I love you”. He said it first. I know he means it because we’ve talked about moving and getting a house together.

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      The two of you have a strong relationship together. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Happy!

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    Thanks for this – it really helped put things into perspective!

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      January 22, 2018 at 9:33 pm


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    baylee miller

    May 20, 2017 at 11:07 am


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      May 20, 2017 at 1:37 pm

      我很高兴听到我们可以提供帮助。祝你好运,感谢您的评论,Baylee Miller!