在这个世界上没有什么比爱情更特别的了。这是一种强烈的，神圣的感觉，在我们的心中给予了我们温暖，但在我们的脊椎下滑。看到你爱的人就像看到天使直接从天上看，同时听到这三个小字“我爱你”让我们在轨道中停止死，瞬间融化。虽然爱情也可以复杂，特别是当有人说它但是doesn’t truly mean it.那么你怎么能告诉一个人吗？真当他告诉你这三个特殊的话时意味着它？我们将潜入爱情世界，并在他说'我爱你'时，让你的家伙真正意味着它的迹象。
Three Reasons He Might be Faking
这是不幸的，但有时候男人（和女人也！）说'我爱你'没有真正的意思。It’s a shame and truly something that messes with the heart on the other end, but to help reduce the risks of being played into a fake love, we are going to give you the three top reasons a man might say ‘I love you’ without meaning it.
It’s unfortunate, but almost every man on planet earth knows that a woman is an emotional creature that is more likely to ‘give it up’ if she feels a man is in love with her. A lot of men use this ‘trick’ on women to get them into bed, then afterwards they’re up and leaving. It’s important to notice when a man is just saying ‘I love you’ to sleep with you- it’s pretty obvious if he does it while you guys are heating things up or when he’s obviously turned on and touching you every which way.
He Feels Forced to Say It
When a woman is in love with a man, she obviously wants him to know and is dying for him to reciprocate the answer. That being said, a woman in love will probably tell this guy over and over again just how much she loves him, just waiting for him to say it back to her. If you’re bugging him constantly about the ‘L’ word and he finally says it back begrudgingly, he most likely felt he HAD to say it just to get you to be happy. Does he mean it? Probably not.
Fourteen Reasons He is Being Real
Says it First
大多数的男人don’t like to say ‘I love you’ first.It may be that they are scared, they don’t want to come across as needy, they are afraid of rejection, or simply their ego doesn’t want them to be the one being all emotional. Some men are even afraid of being in love期。所有这些都让一个男人终于说出了大的'l'的话，所以如果你的家伙是第一个说出来的话，你可以放心，他可能是他的感受真的;特别是如果他在性交之前或之后都不这样做。
With some people you can just告诉when their being genuine. Perhaps they have a certain way of saying something they truly mean, or their body language says it all. When he finally tells you he loves you, pay very close attention to how genuine he is actually appearing. Pay attention to his body language from head to toe and really get a good look at him when he says it.
Looks Deep Into Your Eyes
A guy that is in love won’t have to be prompted to say ‘I love you’, and once they get comfortable saying it, they will want to say it all the time. His love will happen at random when you are least expecting it, because he wants you to know he is being for real and he wants to make you smile as much as he possibly can. And he absolutely won’t leave the love to only ‘I love you too’s when you guys are talking.
Men that are truly in love with their lady want to hold them close all the time; not just when you guys are getting ready to kiss or watching a movie, but all the time. It’s only natural! I mean think about it: when you truly love something or someone, you want it next to you all the time and you just want to feel close; that is exactly how a guy feels when he falls in love with a woman. They simply can’t get enough of their touch, and after an embrace, it is hard for them to let go.
Let’s just be brutally honest right now: a guy that is not one hundred percent serious about you and is absolutely not in love with you将不会和你谈谈未来！他们没有want与您的未来，他们仍然为他们梦想中的女人而努力实现坚定的承诺。So, if your guy is talking about the future- whether it’s the kind of house you two want or a vacation you should take during the summertime, take that as a big indication he is truly in love with you and wants you to stick around for a very long time.
There’s a big difference between a peck on the lips and a passionate kiss, and an ‘I love you’ should only be ended with a long, passionate kiss, where the love is being strewn up and down your spine as your tongues press against each other in a remarkable way. It’s the kiss where you can almost see fireworks, the one that melts your entire being. That’s the passionate ‘I love you’ kiss you will only receive from a man that is truly in love with you.
当他们恋爱时，男人和女人会嫉妒。如果你的男朋友不在乎一个人正在和你调情或者他可能已经注意到你的脸上的眉毛，那么他可能不在乎youat all. Jealousy just goes hand-in-hand with being in love; it sucks, but is certainly is true!
You know that big smile a guy does when he is staring into your eyes like you’re the most beautiful woman in the world? Yup, that is the smile of a man who is smitten.
You Just Know
Sometimes the best way to know if something is genuine or fake is to use your own judgment. We all have intuitions, and if yours is telling you that he is really in love with you, you may be right. On the other hand, if everything just seems ‘off’ and ‘not real’, then pay close attention to him and figure out what the truth really is. Either way you need to follow your heart.