14迹象,当他​​说“我爱你”时,你的家伙意味着它

By2017年1月23日

在这个世界上没有什么比爱情更特别的了。这是一种强烈的,神圣的感觉,在我们的心中给予了我们温暖,但在我们的脊椎下滑。看到你爱的人就像看到天使直接从天上看,同时听到这三个小字“我爱你”让我们在轨道中停止死,瞬间融化。虽然爱情也可以复杂,特别是当有人说它但是doesn’t truly mean it.那么你怎么能告诉一个人吗?当他告诉你这三个特殊的话时意味着它?我们将潜入爱情世界,并在他说'我爱你'时,让你的家伙真正意味着它的迹象。

Three Reasons He Might be Faking

这是不幸的,但有时候男人(和女人也!)说'我爱你'没有真正的意思。It’s a shame and truly something that messes with the heart on the other end, but to help reduce the risks of being played into a fake love, we are going to give you the three top reasons a man might say ‘I love you’ without meaning it.

他想进入你的裤子

It’s unfortunate, but almost every man on planet earth knows that a woman is an emotional creature that is more likely to ‘give it up’ if she feels a man is in love with her. A lot of men use this ‘trick’ on women to get them into bed, then afterwards they’re up and leaving. It’s important to notice when a man is just saying ‘I love you’ to sleep with you- it’s pretty obvious if he does it while you guys are heating things up or when he’s obviously turned on and touching you every which way.

He Feels Forced to Say It

When a woman is in love with a man, she obviously wants him to know and is dying for him to reciprocate the answer. That being said, a woman in love will probably tell this guy over and over again just how much she loves him, just waiting for him to say it back to her. If you’re bugging him constantly about the ‘L’ word and he finally says it back begrudgingly, he most likely felt he HAD to say it just to get you to be happy. Does he mean it? Probably not.

Fourteen Reasons He is Being Real

当然不是所有人都说'我爱你',因为他们想要一些性别或觉得他们必须这样做;那么你怎么能告诉一个人真正的真实吗?有十四种简单的方法来判断他是否是真正的交易,他的爱是纯洁的。

Says it First

大多数的男人don’t like to say ‘I love you’ first.It may be that they are scared, they don’t want to come across as needy, they are afraid of rejection, or simply their ego doesn’t want them to be the one being all emotional. Some men are even afraid of being in love。所有这些都让一个男人终于说出了大的'l'的话,所以如果你的家伙是第一个说出来的话,你可以放心,他可能是他的感受真的;特别是如果他在性交之前或之后都不这样做。

听起来很真实

With some people you can just告诉when their being genuine. Perhaps they have a certain way of saying something they truly mean, or their body language says it all. When he finally tells you he loves you, pay very close attention to how genuine he is actually appearing. Pay attention to his body language from head to toe and really get a good look at him when he says it.

Looks Deep Into Your Eyes

当他告诉你他爱你时,一个快速而简单的方式来判断一个男人的真实性,就是注意到他的眼睛。他在看地面,试图避免眼神接触吗?他可以是真的,真的很紧张或根本根本不是意思。但是十分之九,当一个人真正恋爱并准备说话时,他会深入了解他的女人的眼睛,以确保他在告诉她这么重要的事情时充分关注。因此,当“我爱你”时,确保他的眼睛被锁在你身上。他的眼睛应该好像他们正在深入涌入你的灵魂,告诉你的每一寸爱情是有意义的和真实的。

随机说

A guy that is in love won’t have to be prompted to say ‘I love you’, and once they get comfortable saying it, they will want to say it all the time. His love will happen at random when you are least expecting it, because he wants you to know he is being for real and he wants to make you smile as much as he possibly can. And he absolutely won’t leave the love to only ‘I love you too’s when you guys are talking.

抓住你关闭

Men that are truly in love with their lady want to hold them close all the time; not just when you guys are getting ready to kiss or watching a movie, but all the time. It’s only natural! I mean think about it: when you truly love something or someone, you want it next to you all the time and you just want to feel close; that is exactly how a guy feels when he falls in love with a woman. They simply can’t get enough of their touch, and after an embrace, it is hard for them to let go.

和你谈论未来

Let’s just be brutally honest right now: a guy that is not one hundred percent serious about you and is absolutely not in love with you将不会和你谈谈未来!他们没有want与您的未来,他们仍然为他们梦想中的女人而努力实现坚定的承诺。So, if your guy is talking about the future- whether it’s the kind of house you two want or a vacation you should take during the summertime, take that as a big indication he is truly in love with you and wants you to stick around for a very long time.

热情地亲吻你

There’s a big difference between a peck on the lips and a passionate kiss, and an ‘I love you’ should only be ended with a long, passionate kiss, where the love is being strewn up and down your spine as your tongues press against each other in a remarkable way. It’s the kiss where you can almost see fireworks, the one that melts your entire being. That’s the passionate ‘I love you’ kiss you will only receive from a man that is truly in love with you.

让你感到特别

所以你想看一个可怕的小鸡轻弹,他显然宁愿看草成长吗?但是他无论如何都要看着它?这一定是爱。所以你的背部有点伤害,但你不想去按摩?他会为你按摩它。所以他送你一个可爱的短信,只是为了点亮你的一天,当你在工作中途时?这些都是一个男人为他的女人做的事情,他真正喜欢他的所有心脏。

是嫉妒

当他们恋爱时,男人和女人会嫉妒。如果你的男朋友不在乎一个人正在和你调情或者他可能已经注意到你的脸上的眉毛,那么他可能不在乎youat all. Jealousy just goes hand-in-hand with being in love; it sucks, but is certainly is true!

他喜欢靠近你

如果一个人说'我爱你'想要看到你几乎每周都会看到你的男人,不要感到惊讶;我的意思是,为什么不是?你们两个恋爱并分开是几乎奸诈。是的,一些个人空间是可以的,但对于大多数人来说,你们两个人都想一直在一起。你想去约会,一起做晚餐,或者只是坐在家里偎依着看电影。重点是:你们想要一直都要接近。

真正笑了

You know that big smile a guy does when he is staring into your eyes like you’re the most beautiful woman in the world? Yup, that is the smile of a man who is smitten.

对你有特殊的东西

男人喜欢惊讶并破坏他们喜欢的女人,如果他在冰箱里留下工作,或者在情人节那天的华丽钻石项链之前,它是否有点“我爱你”诗。大事和小事都是包装的一部分,如果一个男人真的爱上了你,你就会得到两者。

他吹嘘你

一个严重的爱情的男人也希望他周围的每个人都感到超级嫉妒他的美妙女人,所以如果你忘记了他吹嘘你的不间断,他可能会爱你。

You Just Know

Sometimes the best way to know if something is genuine or fake is to use your own judgment. We all have intuitions, and if yours is telling you that he is really in love with you, you may be right. On the other hand, if everything just seems ‘off’ and ‘not real’, then pay close attention to him and figure out what the truth really is. Either way you need to follow your heart.

当他真的恋爱时,你觉得一个男人如何行动?什么是一些迹象?与我们分享您的思想和故事!

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    汉娜

    3月18日,2020年下午1:29

    我在4个月前通过一个共同的朋友遇到了这个家伙,自1月以来,我一直在约会。这一天仍然让我感到惊讶,因为我们第一次见到,我,他,他和他的朋友喝了,最终尝试了我们之前任何人的尝试。自从他看到我的第一刻以来,我的男朋友获得了兴趣,这很明显。几个月我们几乎每天都谈论,我们相互启动了Convos。我们会播出很多,并继续日期。我们一起做了很多东西,让我们亲近的朋友,即使他希望第一个晚上不同。我不确定我是怎样的对他的感觉,但我知道他被我迷住了,因为他总是告诉我他有多喜欢我。他甚至让我开始借用他的车,他会给我买我很多东西(他为他所关心的人买东西),并停止与女孩交谈,他一直在谈论。但是,我告诉他,我真的关心他,作为朋友,我做了(很多),但我不确定我想要一些严肃的事情。另一方面,他做了,当我告诉他时,很伤心。 And then when he was feeling less sad and depressed, he told me he won’t give up on being with me. He can’t cause he wanted me to be his so bad. I ended up staying with him every night almost cause I lost my job after something tragic happened in my life. He was the first person I called and he came to pick me up immediately. Ever since then, I stayed with him and spend almost every single day with him. It took me a while to move all of my stuff in but he just went with the flow. Anytime we would get into an arguement and I wanted to leave he would try his best to not give up and try to work things out with me. I got upset at him one night cause I felt he wasn’t giving me the attention he usually does and I started letting my insecurities get the best of me cause I started to actually fall in love with him. I told him to bring me home and we didn’t talk on the way there. Once we arrived, I walked out of the car and stormed inside. He tried to prevent me from walking away without talking about what was wrong but I didn’t want to. I went inside for a while and I thought he left afterwards but turns out he didn’t. He was waiting for me outside in the cold knocking on my window while I was smoking in the garage. His car kept on coming back in the drive way and sometimes backing out. After about 20 min. I finally heard the knocking while walking into my room. I went to my room, saw his hand knocking and decided to walk to the front door. I opened the front door while he was walking past and realized I was standing there. He came to me and hugged me tight and said “Can we please talk?” So I brought him inside. He started crying and that’s when he told me for the first time that he Loved me. He was even saying he was going to stay the night in the car cause he didn’t wanna leave and never see me again. All the other times he told me he had strong feelings for me. But this time he was genuinely crying saying he thought he was going to lose me and he couldn’t do that. That’s when I realized I really loved him too. Cause I was heartbroken and panicking inside the entire time when I thought he left. I low key wanted him to stay and the thought of never seeing him again crushed my heart. After that we grew stronger. He started knowing all of my flaws but not caring about them. His loyalty has been proven cause he never tried to hide anything from me and how he looks at other girls compared to me (according to my own observance and mutual friends) he doesn’t look at any other female the way he looks at me. And same vice versa. He doesn’t use me for sex and always respects my boundaries. He’s VERY protective. And we continue to learn more about each other and grow more genuine love for each other, eventhough it hasn’t been that long. But we have gotten into alot of big fights due to some struggles I have mentally and some insecurities I hold from a dark child hood. Eventhough I’m working on these things, I still struggle and we still struggle. But he has never given up, even after seeing my worst sides. Anytime I question his intentions and love he gets offended and very upset but never hesitates explaining things to me. He stands up for me, he never stops looking at me, he never stops touching or flirting with me. He encourages me and helps me to get back up since it’s been very emotionally hard on me this past couple of months but he’s trying to help me to where I can help myself more independently. And I am growing. Not to mention, he’s never tried to live with past girlfriends before and he’s dated them way longer than me or knew them way longer, but with me (according to his mom and almost everybody) he’s chosen to actually live with me and try to shoot for things in the Long haul. I struggle with bipolar and it’s affected my friendship recently with the mutual friend who brought us together. And they’ve been friends for years. My boy said to him after me and our friend made up: “Hannah is bipolar. I get why she is, and you and nobody else has to deal with it and I’ll respect that, but I’m going to cause I love her”. My boyfriend didn’t even tell me that, that was our mutual friend I had that falling out with that told me when I opened up about some mental struggles. I’ve never had a man love me like this but in my head of course it’s almost too good to be true. What are your thoughts on this love story? Do you feel it’s genuine or do you feel it’s a desperate kind of love?

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 18, 2020 at 8:33 pm

      很明显,你们两个人互相关心。通过额外的时间在一起滋养你的关系。这将有助于您了解您的未来可能持有的内容。如果您认为您需要解决的任何东西,那么与他交谈您的思想和感受。通过让你们两个人容易进行对话,您将能够克服可能发展的任何障碍。

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    麦迪逊

    February 18, 2020 at 7:42 pm

    如果他爱我,我问了我的家伙,他说是的。我继续问他为什么,他说是因为你,我寄给他一个问号,他只是说你的麦迪逊。这意味着什么?

    • web admin

      web admin

      2月26日,2020年10:51 AM

      这意味着他喜欢你的你是谁。虽然听起来很好,但我觉得他应该能够列出一些他喜欢你的品质,如果他真的感兴趣,也许会发生在你彼此更长的时候。

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    Leo Right

    December 20, 2019 at 7:28 pm

    I spent 6-1/2 years with a man that had all of by the actions your article describes. We were engaged I truly loved him, and still do. I thought everything was fine, he got a phone call over A year ago and threw me out of our house.
    After a year we have started talking, he said, he didn’t feel like I trusted him and also didn’t think I would leave when he threw me out. He ended up telling me that he never thought I would come back to him. I am very confused he is dating 3 women right now, and telling me he still is in love with me and thinks about me everyday. We have met for lunch, then he will ask me to meet him the next date and stands me up.H e told me he had to clear some stuff out of his life before he and I could be back togethet. namely his kids…. what is strange is everyone thinks I up and left him which is not the truth. I am still hung up on this guy, I gave up a great job to stay home and raise his children and help him start a new business. We were engaged 6 months after we got together, after all of that time, I now have nothing. He even asked me what I was doing for Christmas this year, but I am not sure he means any of it…. I feel like he is stringing me along but I don’t know why.

    • web admin

      web admin

      亚博体育app怎么下载2019年12月22日晚上10:26

      当他只需要有人花时间时,它听起来像他一样理所当然和使用你。他完全对你来说是不公平的,你根本不值得这个。他仍在约会其他人的事实似乎表明他对回到认真的关系并没有兴趣,只是使用你。无论是为了他自己的自我还是便利,它肯定听起来像他正在弦乐。

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    Testimony

    亚博体育app怎么下载2019年12月10日在上午9:38

    我有一种感觉他爱我,当他说它并看着我的眼睛,我相信他,但我害怕我可能是错的,他一直试图让我开心,并说。我认为他实际上是真实的,但有时候,我问自己,如果我不是一个人只想象它

    • web admin

      web admin

      1月7日,2020年下午10:33

      人们以不同的速度坠入爱河,所以他完全有可能爱上你。找出肯定的唯一方法是抓住机会,看看这种关系最终的位置。祝你好运,证词!

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    In love at 74

    2019年11月15日在下午3:36

    我的未婚夫在一封电子邮件中向我发送给我。(他在海外的军事中)他是60我是74.我们计划在一个月退休时结婚

    我的女王,这个宇宙中没有什么比对你的爱更快地增长。每一秒钟,它生长了百倍......
    如果有人问我为什么我永远不会停止爱和珍惜你,我可以花一个永恒给他们的原因,仍然没有排出所有令人惊讶的原因,为什么我爱你和为什么你将永远统治我的唯一统治世界。你是我的女王,我最好的朋友,我的世界的爱,我的世界。事实上,你的一切都在我的脸上露出笑容。这就是为什么没有人应该占用你的地方。我爱你的比我所说的任何语言都要多。

    我每周收到至少3次的电子邮件,并在过去的两个月里拥有。我们在晚上和清晨发短信,但我很久以他的电子邮件,因为他似乎更加思考和感觉到他们

    • web admin

      web admin

      2月8日,2020年下午12:09

      It is easier for many people to write long and thoughtful emails. Messaging may be difficult, as it isn’t generally a medium used for long statements. It is clear that he cares about you, so speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. When he retires, nourish your relationship by spending additional time with him in person.

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    周杰伦

    2019年10月14日在下午6:26

    所以我和这个人谈谈,我真的不知道他是否爱我,或者他只是试图进入我的裤子。我们现在一直在谈论大约四个月,我们有点有一个岩石的交流。所以我们互相搞乱了,我们只有大约几周的成长。在我们崩溃之前,他常常告诉我他“爱我”并习惯经常检查我。但就像我说的那样,我们的种类分开了,我们真的没有什么我们只是专注于我们自己只是一会儿。所以,当我们开始回到几乎我们习惯于如何习惯时告诉他,我爱他,而不是说我也爱你,他问我“为什么”。就像你知道他问我好像我是一个陌生人告诉他我爱他。因此,从大肚子感到热衷于告诉他我的感受。所以有一天他在房子里,发生了几个月的事情,他告诉我他爱我。他告诉我,他真的真的意味着它,但我不知道他是否真的意味着它。 I really hope he does though. Because I love him more than anything in this world tbh. Hes like my bestfriend and I trust him a lot ant a feel like I can talk to him about any and everything. Also we just have this strong ass connection like no one understands. Us like we do that why I hope he really means it.

    • web admin

      web admin

      4月2日,2020年9:01 PM

      你担心你伴侣的欲望。自评论以来,你们两个可能考虑了你们关系的未来。如果你们两个仍然在一起,那么他肯定是他关心你,并不兴趣与你保持身体关系。如果您此时没有约会,那么您的疑虑可能是准确的。花这次来确定你想要的未来,并采取你觉得的任何行动是合适的。

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    1月

    2019年8月18日在晚上9:34

    我以为我会做一个重写;由于许多语法错误。所以管理员。随时删除我的第一个响应。谢谢!

    He had waken me up early this morning. He had said, excitingly, “I have finally found a song, that reminds me of us.” It is George Strait’s, I Cross My Heart.” So he played the video on YouTube. I smiled so big and completely imagined us, dancing to it at our wedding of someday.

    他甚至告诉我他第一次爱我。顺便说一下,我37岁,他是41。

    今晚,性能试验ore he went to bed. He texted me the complete lyrics to the song. And he was correct, the song does remind me of us.

    我们的爱是无条件的
    我们从一开始就知道它
    我可以在你眼中看到它
    你可以从心里感受到它
    从这里开始
    让我们保持我们现在的方式
    And share all the love and laughter
    That a lifetime will allow.
    I cross my heart
    并承诺
    给所有我必须给予
    To make all your dreams come true
    In all the world
    你永远不会找到
    像我一样真实的爱
    你将永远是奇迹
    这让我的生活完成了
    只要我有呼吸
    I’ll make yours just as sweet
    我们展望未来
    It’s as far as we can see
    所以让我们明天一切
    是最好的
    I cross my heart
    并承诺
    给所有我必须给予
    To make all your dreams come true
    In all the world
    你永远不会找到
    像我一样真实的爱
    如果沿着我们找到一天
    It starts to storm
    You’ve got the promise of my love
    To keep you warm
    In all the world
    你永远不会找到
    像我一样真实的爱
    像我一样真实的爱

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 20, 2019 at 8:23 pm

      感谢您分享您的见解和经验。我们总是欣赏我们社区的成员分享他们的想法和感受。请在未来分享更多您的支持性评论。jan祝你有个美好的一天!

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    J'annetta Geoege

    2019年8月18日在晚上9:23

    When he finally figured put our song. I spent the night and he woke me up and excitingly said, I found our song that reminds me of us. George Strait’s song, I Cross My Heart. He told me, he loved men while looking in to my eyes. Before he went to bed, he sent me the entire lyrics to the song.

    我们的爱是无条件的
    我们从一开始就知道它
    我可以在你眼中看到它
    你可以从心里感受到它
    从这里开始
    让我们保持我们现在的方式
    And share all the love and laughter
    That a lifetime will allow.
    I cross my heart
    并承诺
    给所有我必须给予
    To make all your dreams come true
    In all the world
    你永远不会找到
    像我一样真实的爱
    你将永远是奇迹
    这让我的生活完成了
    只要我有呼吸
    I’ll make yours just as sweet
    我们展望未来
    It’s as far as we can see
    所以让我们明天一切
    是最好的
    I cross my heart
    并承诺
    给所有我必须给予
    To make all your dreams come true
    In all the world
    你永远不会找到
    像我一样真实的爱
    如果沿着我们找到一天
    It starts to storm
    You’ve got the promise of my love
    To keep you warm
    In all the world
    你永远不会找到
    像我一样真实的爱
    像我一样真实的爱

    • web admin

      web admin

      2019年8月20日晚上8:22

      感谢您分享您的见解和经验。我们总是欣赏我们社区的成员分享他们的想法和感受。请在未来分享更多您的支持性评论。祝你有美好的一天,j'annetta!

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    just wqondering

    2019年4月28日上午12:13

    when he said I wanted to tell you this. Your beauty is as astounding as the winds of heaven that rips the chains of my everlasting sincerity and heart. You are my shining star in the darkness and if you were to count all the stars at night that is how much I love you. Also I want to tell you that out of all the flowers in the field I would only choose one and that would be you my beautiful rose. I don’t know if he is just saying it for me to tell him my feelings anf=d then just say its a joke or he really means it. helps?

    • web admin

      web admin

      2019年4月28日晚上9:23

      他与你分享了他的思想和感受。他可能决定是诗意的,这是他想给你留下深刻印象的迹象。这并不意味着他的陈述是假的。他很可能有兴趣与你滋养关系。确保您的梦想指导您与他交谈,了解您的思想和感受。有一个美好的一天,想知道!

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