12Signs a Guy Likes You But Won’t Admit it

经过2016年9月26日

当你对某人感受到感情时,真的疯狂和混乱的事情是我们许多人试图隐藏它的事实。我们经历了这么多麻烦,只是为了让我们真正喜欢发现关于我们的感受。

我们为什么要做这个?

The truth is, pretty much every single human being has a fear of rejection. Those that claim they don’t are just very, very skilled at hiding this feeling. The fear of being rejected can cause us to hold onto our feelings and never reveal it to the person we care most about.

这是一个可怕的事情是,只要保持隐藏的感觉,我们就可以错过最好的东西。难道你不喜欢承认你的感受如何让你的感受很大的事情,而不是抓住你的感受,肯定是什么?

大多数人宁愿机会后者,它真的令人沮丧 - 特别是如果你真的喜欢他们!然而,有些迹象可以放弃一个人,即使他不会承认自己,也可以如何感受你。这是一个如何判断一个人是否喜欢你,但不会承认它。

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  1. 他经常盯着你。

If a guy likes you, he’s going to look at you a lot because he finds you attractive. He also will be looking at you a lot because he wants to notice everything about you and your little quirks. However, when you see him staring and he turns away, this is a sign he likes you but just won’t admit it. He never wants you to notice how much he’s looking.

  1. He starts conversations with you but keeps them short.

If he’s the one to always start your conversations and always the first person to try and talk to you, but he always keeps them short, like he’s trying to avoid going into a lot of detail, this is a sign he likes you but just doesn’t want to admit it. When a guy starts the conversations but then abruptly stops them, it’s because he doesn’t want you to know just how much he wants to talk with you.

  1. 他记得你生活中的所有特殊场合。

如果他发短信给你生日快乐,并询问你的大面试是如何在对你有重要的任何一天来评论,他喜欢你。关于这一点的困难的一部分是,这是他关心你的一天的清晰标志,但它也意味着他不想承认他喜欢你,因为他保持非常友好。

  1. 当你明显沮丧时,他试图振作起来。

This is a huge sign that a guy likes you. If he’s a person to try and make you feel better when you feel sad or upset, he really likes you. However, when he does this and then kind of backs off and doesn’t push you to feel better, that’s because he doesn’t want to admit just how much he likes you.

  1. He asks personal questions about you.

如果他不关心你,没有人会想知道你最喜欢的甜点或你的所有时间的生活进球。如果他喜欢你,他会想知道一切真正的个人。他会开始询问你的童年和所有兴趣。但如果他以一种似乎他有理由问这些问题的方式,这是因为他不会承认他喜欢你。

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  1. 他将你张贴了。

This is a big sign that a guy likes you but is easily hidden by the fact that you can’t prove it just by a double text. If you don’t know what that is, it’s when you get two or more texts in a row from him without having replied to any. This just means that he really wants to talk to you and wants to get your attention.

  1. 他给你低调的赞美。

当一个人赞美你的外表时,他很明显他喜欢你。但如果他以一种让你困惑的方式赞美你的个性或你的兴趣,如果它真的只是一个恭维,那么他喜欢你,但不想承认他确实如此。他隐藏了他所做的事实,但他也无法帮助你不符合你的东西。

  1. He asks if you’ll be at parties/events.

如果您有同样的朋友组,并且知道正在发生的同一缔约方或事件,他总是问您是否会参加他们,他喜欢你,但不会承认它。他并不要求你和他一起去那些派对,因为他试图隐藏他喜欢你,但他也真的想知道你是否会在那里,所以他可以做得正常。

  1. He acts like he likes you, but never talks about his feelings.

如果有一个人总是恭维你,并在你身边和跟随你们和你和你谈话,但从来没有谈过自己或他是如何感受的,这是因为他只是不承认他对你有感情。有些人为你做出谈话,所以他们可以确定他们喜欢你的程度,但他们扣留了他们自己的信息,所以他们不会让他们对你的感受。

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  1. His friends tell you he likes you.

这是一个人喜欢你的巨大赠品,但不会承认自己。如果他的朋友们偷偷地谈到你并告诉你他们的朋友喜欢你,这是他所做的明确标志。这常常发生,因为他的朋友真的希望他能够去做它,但他太顽固了,无法承认自己的感受。如果这发生在你身上,那么假设他真的像你一样安全。

  1. He denies it when you ask him.

If you’ve ever tried to approach a guy and ask if he likes you and he immediately gets embarrassed and even denies the entire thing, it’s clear that he just doesn’t want to admit it. For whatever reason he has an issue with his feelings for you and might even not be ready for a relationship. If you’re confident he likes you but he says he doesn’t, then he might not be ready to tell you how he feels just yet.

  1. 他试图独自和你一起出去玩。

If you’re at a party and you always seem to be talking to JUST him and he slyly made it so the two of you are alone, then he might really like you but just not want to admit it. Another sign is if you plan on going on a group outing and everyone ends up canceling but him and HE is the one who arranged the whole thing, it may be because he never even told the others to come.

不承认自己的感情的人总是令人沮丧。但是,他们通常有一个有效的理由这样做。但是如果您在与您知道的人交谈时注意到上面的任何迹象,那么它可能意味着他喜欢你,但不会承认它。

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    麦莉

    April 29, 2020 at 1:10 pm

    进一步到我的上一步评论每当我让他通过明确澄清我有一些浪漫情怀,我有一些,他会让我回来说他真的很喜欢我,但不是浪漫的。所以我拿走了空间来关掉我的感情。我们谈到了结束联系,因为他说他不希望这个想法成为我们思想的背面。我没有明白为什么它会在他的背后?在Covid病毒和我们开始说话之后,我再次联系,他一直在帮助我解决问题,并说无需感谢我,你会为我做同样的事情。然而他不愿意挂起,他感到有义务回到我过去帮助他的帮助吗?如果他不想说他只是要说,我就会对他说清楚。他携带吸引力,但现在已经采取了拉回到哪个奇怪的时候,因为我们是朋友。他想要什么。我不会厌恶关系,但需要从抓挠建立信任。 I’m just confused

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    麦莉

    4月26日,2020年上午10:40

    我非常接近一个男孩,当我们遇到时,我们有一个真正的联系和乐趣,但我们没有进入合适的关系。后来,明显,他没有超过他的前任,如此情绪不可用,但我已经开发了感情。最后,我们决定只是朋友。我们创造了规则和边界,但他会继续调情,尽管他对我没有兴趣,但仍然会给我买东西。我厌倦了,失去了我的感情,但是当我要求他被拒绝和他拒绝的朋友一起闲逛时,让他变得足够。这一切都太令人困惑了,所以我拿了空间。我们只又再次接触过文字,他试图帮助我,走出他感兴趣或只是成为一个好朋友?

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      网络管理员

      April 26, 2020 at 8:44 pm

      很明显,他关心你,但他似乎对他的感情感到困惑。他可能想和你滋养浪漫的联系,但他对他的前任的感情让他感到困惑。您对与他保持浪漫的关系不感兴趣,这意味着您必须考虑您的感受是可行和合适的。与他谈论你的想法和感受,并给他一个与你分享自己的机会。

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        麦莉

        April 27, 2020 at 6:30 am

        每次我都让他有机会通过清楚地让我明确地承认任何浪漫情绪,我有一些他会把我赶回去说他真的很喜欢我,但不是浪漫的。所以我拿走了空间来关掉我的感情。我们谈到了结束联系,因为他说他不希望这个想法成为我们思想的背面。我没有明白为什么它会在他的背后?在Covid病毒和我们开始说话之后,我再次联系,他试图帮助我解决问题,但不愿意挂起。如果我们都是朋友,他为什么不想出去玩?

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    SEO.

    4月25日,2020年9月33日

    你是绝对正确的 !!!谢谢

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      网络管理员

      April 25, 2020 at 6:15 pm

      Thank you for sharing your supportive comment. Please share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future.

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    Rebecca Barrow

    亚博体育app怎么下载2019年12月7日在下午4:53

    I had a guy flirt with me at work he straight asked me if what I had was enough at home. I said I was good in the relationship I’m in. I said yes
    Well last week he was laying on it heavy flirting with me. I don’t care if he thought it wasn’t it was.
    然后,当我说与他的意图完全相关的事情时,他会带来我在线之间读到的东西。
    I think he really likes me or I’m I just mind screwing my self sigh this sucks I’m too grown for this lmao

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      网络管理员

      2020年1月12日晚上11:30

      It sounds like he would be responsive to you if you were interested in him. He clearly is interested on some level. I’d be concerned about the fact that he is still hitting on you when he knows that you are in a relationship. If he won’t respect your relationship now, how would he treat a relationship that he is part of?

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    savana

    December 5, 2019 at 3:33 pm

    My crush is fully aware that i like him. i know that he likes me. the other day, he told me he was in LOVE with me but he has a girlfriend and wants to see how that works. THAT WAS ALOOOOTTTTT To take in 45 minutes. what if the relationship with his current girlfriend works and he denies all of his promises. IM REALLY SCARED.

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      网络管理员

      2020年1月14日,下午12:36

      He has a girlfriend. Don’t attempt to nourish this relationship. Inform him that maintaining a romantic relationship with him is inappropriate. If his relationship ends and he reaches out to you, then you should be aware of how he was treating his partner while they were together.

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    艾米莉

    2019年11月10日晚上9:07

    Hi so recently my ex-boyfriend and I have become friends again and its been going great, but I am very confused. Him and I dated over a year ago for 6 months, but we were a lot younger then. Him and I seem to be better at communicating now and we talk a lot. He does make an effort to see me and talk to me, and when we do hang out intimate things always happen. However, he always tells me that he wants to stay single and/or see what happens. It confuses me because I feel that the connection we have is just like a relationship, but he won’t put a title on it. He finds me the only trustworthy person in his life and has thanked me a million times for being there for him in hard times, but won’t come forward for a relationship. He will lowkey compliment me and look at me often. I really really want it to be more, but my friends think he’s using me for sex and other things. I don’t believe he would because of how we talk when we aren’t alone and how respectful and loyal he is. I’m just really confused and I would like some advice..

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      网络管理员

      February 12, 2020 at 11:07 am

      很明显,你们两个人互相吸引,并有兴趣滋养与你的关系。然而,你们两个以前已经结束了你的关系,你似乎对未来感到困惑。与你的前任谈论你的想法和感受,并肯定会给他一个与你分享自己的机会。

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    Sad Girl

    2019年11月5日在下午1:38

    我知道我有点晚,但是,我有问题,已经是最长的时间。这是这个神奇的家伙,我绝对爱上了七年。我知道......这很长一段时间。几年前我确认了我的感受,但他说他只是不觉得一样。但最近我觉得事情发生了变化。我们都是大学的新生,我们只有一个小时的距离彼此。我非常亲近他的家人,所以我在休息期间看到他。

    在夏天结束时,在我们既离开学校之前,他开始给我引起关注。介意你,这家伙没有社交媒体,几乎没有回应短信。然后,从无处可去,他常常开始发短信给我。我偶尔每次拍摄一份文字是正常的,但他从不先发短信。然后他邀请我和他和他的伙伴一起吃午餐,他邀请我和他和他的朋友一起看电影......这样的事情。

    His sister is my best friend, and they’re both lifeguards. So I was invited to hang with them at the beach. I was already at his house with his sister, I didn’t have a suit. And because I couldn’t get to town and he was already in town, he offered to get it for me.

    他刚刚变得越来越关注。但现在我们现在都在大学,我不经常见到他。他的前任和他去了同一所学校,他们还是很好的朋友,他们有机会结束。我只是有一个非常糟糕的时间阅读他。

    I think I really do love him, but I don’t think I’d ever have the courage to tell him after the first time… I’m a mess.

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      网络管理员

      2020年2月16日下午9:20

      我认为他有可能喜欢你。他也可能只是认为你真的,真正的好朋友,特别是因为你已经靠近他的家人。他拒绝了你已经很长时间了,所以我才能移动,看看你舒服的时候会发生什么。到目前为止,可能发生了许多不同的事情,这可能让他对你更感兴趣。

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    丽莎鸟

    October 28, 2019 at 6:12 pm

    他此刻在另一种关系中。However, they never talk like e v e r- my friend asked him without me knowing “hows it with *insert his gfs name*” and he said “we basically never talk, because when we do its always just ‘hi’ and thats it.” . He always teases me for getting into trouble (in school) and i catch him staring at me all the time, and whenever i catch him he just looks away. We do argue, but its never an actual argument. Its always in a joking manner where we just give hateful comments about eachother, like dumb 5-year olds but we always laugh about it whenever it happens. And never have i ever seen him doing it to any other girls, ever. Not to mention that his gf had aftershave sprayed in her hair constantly by this boy and he was there, he didnt do a thing. He only laughed with the other people around her. Im very confused because he never responded to a message i send him. Although i only tried 2 times because its embarrassing. And he still hasnt done anything. My prediction is that he cant do anything until he breaks up with her?

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      网络管理员

      3月4日,2020年下午6:54

      你们两个是朋友,但你意识到他此时保持浪漫的关系。您可以滋养这一友谊,但不要试图加强与他的浪漫联系。如果他目前的关系结束,那么那时就会向他联系。这次是适合你与他分享你的感受。

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    Shiann

    October 1, 2019 at 4:42 pm

    I think for some reason a guy in biology has been talking about me with his friends and I think some girl’s talk about me to their friends. I don’t know why they talk about me. Do I stink after tennis practice? Am I too quiet? You don’t like the way my neck looks at the back of my head? Do you like me? Am I someone cool? Am i special to talk about? You place so many questions in my head giving me explosions and you’re making me sooooo embarrassed. I can’t speak, I can’t breathe, I can’t think,and I can’t stop the skipping of my heart beat. I’m skipping my heat beat.
    这是什么意思呢?如果他们以喜欢的方式或者他们嫉妒地对我充满热情,请告诉我。

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      网络管理员

      亚博体育app怎么下载2019年12月29日在下午2:32

      你可能只是想象他们正在谈论你。如果他们实际在谈论你,那么它很可能是因为其中一个人喜欢你。现在,你只需要确定哪一个!祝你好运!

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    Help

    2019年9月24日晚上5:49

    Oh my gosh, I’m losing my mind over this guy.

    所以他和我一直是朋友几个月,化学已经真实。我们询问个人问题(包括约会偏好),我们一直调整。他叫我很可爱,性张力是令人振奋的。我们都知道另一个是单身而且对关系开放,但他不会承认他的感受;他一直试图让我溢出豆子。我推迟了这一点。

    Then a week ago, he said he’s chatting up another girl and is interested in asking her out. I have no way to tell if he’s being real about this, but he keeps flirting with me. I’m so confused and conflicted. Our friends are always talking about us getting together but nobody’s making a move. Now that there’s “another girl” I don’t even know if I should confess. Should I stop flirting until he figures this out? Any advice? I feel like he’s playing hot and cold and it’s so annoying.

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      Help

      September 24, 2019 at 5:53 pm

      PS - 我厌倦了抱着我的感情,但我现在不确定他的真实动机是什么。我们既顽固,它又难以互动。我想和他约会,但我不能永远等待。

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        网络管理员

        亚博体育app怎么下载2019年12月24日晚上7:32

        One of you will have to break down and actually do something, or you will never be able to move forward. Just stop being stubborn and talk to him to find out what his true motives are. Good luck!

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      网络管理员

      December 24, 2019 at 11:59 am

      你们两个人互相吸引,目前都是单身的。他可能试图让你感到嫉妒。他可能已经告诉过你这个其他女孩,因为他希望你能举动。虽然这可能不成熟,但他可能会谈论你。决定你想要对这种关系的未来,与他说话的关于你的想法和感受。

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    布兰妮

    September 9, 2019 at 10:08 am

    我爱上了我的家伙最好的朋友。他曾说过他之前喜欢我,但我们不能去那个水平。但我们已经多次亲密。他不会告诉我他如何想到我。他从来没有认真对待我,没有开玩笑或放入我有一个美丽的个性或我很可爱。但他让它成为评论他的前任的美丽或一般女性都有时间。昨天我让他再次告诉我你在完成我的朋友后你对我的感受如何感觉。他非常非常非常吸引她,她很华丽。他曾经过过的第一个胖乎乎的女孩,但她很漂亮,她也很讨厌,他做错了。我在和他在一起,并总是把我的心倒出来,做和爱他。 we spend so much time together and he does genuinely love me. I just can’t get past how he will NOT tell me how I appear to him. I must add I am more fluffier than your average slim women. He also tells me he doesn’t know if and when we maybe together. He says he is not sure he is just enjoying being single now. I’m just so hurt…what should I do.

    • 网络管理员

      网络管理员

      2019年9月9日下午1:30

      You feel a strong emotional relationship with your best friend. The two of you have made the decision to be intimate together. He comments on the attractiveness of other women, which may be an indication for his reasons for not wanting to maintain a monogamous relationship with you. He shared his desires to remain single with you. It is possible that he may be interested in nourishing romantic relationship with you in the future. Make a decision about what you want for your future, and take whatever action that you feel is appropriate. Have a great day, Britney!

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    Melisa

    2019年9月6日早上6:18

    What if he confess to you and dissapares the next day?

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      网络管理员

      2019年9月6日晚上10:59

      这意味着他不确定他希望对这种关系的未来。决定你的觉得是合适的。与他谈论你的想法和感受,并给他一个与你分享自己的机会。祝你有美好的一天,梅丽莎!

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    Melisa

    September 6, 2019 at 6:17 am

    What if he confess to you and dissapares the next day?

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      网络管理员

      2019年9月6日晚上10:59

      这意味着他不确定他希望对这种关系的未来。决定你的觉得是合适的。与他谈论你的想法和感受,并给他一个与你分享自己的机会。祝你有美好的一天,梅丽莎!

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    斯托特

    2019年8月10日在上午7:37

    我和一个人有一个奇怪的友谊......当他发现我喜欢他的别人时,他又拒绝了我。我们没有谈论一段时间,但他几个月前加入了友谊,现在我们每天都在谈话。当我暂时看到他时,他在我周围紧张地紧张,但现在是夏天,所以我们只是通过文字说话。我仍然喜欢他,但我不认为他知道这一点。他一直在做一些可疑的“朋友”的事情......当我们有初始的“问题”时,他提到他不想“潜意识地引导我”......我觉得他抛出了风的陈述。他对关系和粉碎非常尴尬,但最近他向我打开了一个前任。他提出给我这个周末的地方给我买东西,最近他一直在恭维我的艺术。如果他们也给我留言,他嫉妒其他人。另一个晚上我们正在讨论一些关于外观的东西,在背景下,我提到的是我“客观上有吸引力”,然后后来,“精细肤色的定义”......这些术语似乎是真正的技术。他试图展示我们的朋友吗? or his he just too nervous to actually give a subjective compliment about my appearance?

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      网络管理员

      2019年8月10日晚上10:02

      His nervous actions may be an indication that he likes you, but he is uncertain or confused about your feelings toward him. His awkward behaviors may be related to his previous relationship. His statements about you being attractive are clear indications of his feelings for you. Make a decision about what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Stef!

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      Katie

      2019年8月15日在下午3:17

      所以我喜欢的家伙,如果我喜欢他,我说不,我说不,然后问他是否喜欢我,他说不是一个非常非努力的方式。他表现得像他对我很生气,说不,他说他真的不想让我们两个之间尴尬。他想留在亲密的朋友,但我不知道他说的方式行事,当我说似乎没有伤害。

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        网络管理员

        2019年8月15日晚上5:03

        He asked you if you liked him, and he told you that he didn’t. His question is an indication of his feelings for you. It is clear that he is interested in you. Make a decision about what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Katie!

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    Kayla.

    2019年8月8日晚上12:30

    所以我和这个男孩一起工作,我不知道当我圣arted to like him but eventually I did. One day he accidentally broke one of my nails and he felt so bad that he kept telling me he’ll pay for me to get them done. after arguing and telling him i didn’t want him money and it was a accident he soon just gave me the money which was very sweet. he would say hi to me every time i come to work, he would tell me goodnight if he leaves first. There was time where we would leave at the same time and he would tell me to wait for him to clock out so he could walk with me. this one night he walked me to my car because i was very upset that night and he looked me in the eye and told me i was beautiful because i was feeling very insecure at that moment because a situation happened. so i really started to like him more deeply and i feel like he really likes me to but sometimes he shows that he doesn’t so i get so frustrated and upset at work because he’s confusing me. i never been in a relationship before so i never gone through something like this but i would rather not get rejected if i was to ever ask him if he likes me. also its very hard to express my feelings to someone like its like I’m not capable. but i just don’t know what to do with this situation

    • 网络管理员

      网络管理员

      2019年8月8日在晚上9:33

      His behaviors are clear indications that he cares for you. It is certainly possible that he is interested in maintaining a relationship with you. Make a decision about what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. If you are too shy to speak with him immediately, then first nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Kayla!

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    maree.

    July 31, 2019 at 4:20 pm

    我的天啊!这篇文章留下了我秃头。

    所以我最近见过这个家伙,他对我真的很好。当我要求恩惠时,他总是在那里,我觉得他喜欢我,我会如此让他约会,看看事情的位置。在我的生日那天,他向我发短信给我生日快乐,问我是如何,如果我有任何计划,我向他解释了我又一个糟糕的一天,他立即建议去海滩,吸烟,我接受了他的邀请。We had an amazing time, from time to time I’d catch him staring at me, he never called me by my name the whole day, he’d call me “Birthday girl” which sounds not that exciting but I just thought it was cute, made me feel special. Anyways, after the beach he asked me if I wanted to do something else, I said that I wanted to get dessert and thats what he did. after that he asked me again what I wanted to do and I said I wanted to go home, which I think made him a little sad. we hung out the day after. The next day he asked me If I wanted to hang out again but I had to say no bc I had other plans. He asked me again today, and I said yes. im like 90% sure he likes me but will not admit it and thats what I don’t like about the whole situations… like dude!!! have some balls, we could be making out rn but your playing. Anyways, someone pls give me their opinion and what I should do:(((

    • 网络管理员

      网络管理员

      2019年7月31日在下午4:59

      他显然对你感兴趣。他希望尽可能多地花时间。他已经问过你想做什么,所以你也想问他他的感受。与他谈论你的想法和感受,并给他一个与你一起分享自己的机会。通过与他一起度过额外的时间来滋养这种关系。有一个美好的一天,maree!

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    匿名的

    July 21, 2019 at 7:15 pm

    好的。我和这个家伙有这种奇怪的友谊......让他打电话给他。
    现在凯斯在我们见面的前两天,他是如此平淡无奇。然后我给了他的号码,所以我们可以更多地了解更多......我们谈到了,然后我注意到他真的是一个真正的性感和好笑。喜欢谈论他生命中的事件。但是当我们发短信时,他几乎没有。我的意思是我问他是否想知道关于我的事,他说“现在没有权利,但你以后可以告诉我”。我和我的哥哥谈过,他说他可能会喜欢我,但不想承认这是因为他想更好地了解我。但是有一天我问他,如果他对某人感兴趣,他说“不”,然后我问他是否喜欢任何人并说过。所以我很困惑。我不知道该怎么办…

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      网络管理员

      July 22, 2019 at 2:09 pm

      你们两个人分享了强烈的社会和情感关系。亲自,你们两个自由沟通。在文本中,他很慢,没有反应。它肯定可能对你感兴趣。有些人不喜欢在短信中发表短信。这很常见。如果你想滋养这种关系,那么请亲自度过额外的时间。与他交谈,建立一个时间来看彼此。有一个美好的一天,anon!

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    匿名的

    July 10, 2019 at 8:19 pm

    我喜欢这个人。让他称他为“乔伊”。现在我和乔伊有一个奇怪的关系。在过去的几个月里,我们来成为非常亲密的朋友。我们经常发短信,一次聊天几个小时。现在这是复杂的东西跳进去的地方。几个月前,我们学校有正式的舞蹈。现在,我所有的朋友我都提出了一个严格的无约会政策,包括乔伊,包括乔伊,知道这一点。有一天,蓝乔伊要求我正式。我礼貌地拒绝,虽然他似乎有点不高兴,他似乎对此感到有点失望。现在我所说的原因是因为另一个男孩已经让我追求舞蹈,我同意像朋友一样。 I had felt a little bad but thought nothing of it. He didn’t show up to formal, but his friend “Randy” had. We talked throughout it. A couple weeks later I was texting Joey one night when the guy who had asked me to formal said out of the blue if I liked Joey. I was startled and said no in a respectful manner as I had never even given Joey any romantic thought until that moment. This kid screenshoted the message and I freaked out. So I messaged Joey personally and asked me if he liked me. Joey seem surprised I had knew but admitted his feelings to me. I then told him that it wasn’t him but I just wasn’t looking to date right now but I’d accept his feelings. He was alright with this and we stopped talking for it for the night. The next day at lunch he had suddenly asked me who told me he liked me. I told him it was the kid who’d asked me to formal. He seemed a little off but said nothing more. Later that night the kid that asked me to formal told me that Joey had got really upset with him. But Joey was confused because he never told this kid he liked me. Later on I found out that Randy had told this kid. Now a couple weeks after this Joey randomly tells me that Randy too likes me and mentioned a particular incident where he’d tried to ask me to formal but didn’t get the nerve. I was shocked but said nothing of it. The last week of school all three of us (me, Joey and Randy) we’re hanging out. And… They both just casually started discussing their feelings for me and how long they’ve liked me while I was right there. I was a little freaked out but played it off. Now the three of us all text, call and hangout quite regularly. I know for a fact they both have feelings for me. They sometimes will even speak of it on calls. Now, ever since thar kid first told me about Joey liking me, I’ve started developing feelings for him. At first I was confused as I’ve never really had a crush or even dated someone before. Both boys have been in several relationships though. Now I haven’t told anyone my feelings for Joey. I kinda feel bad for liking him because of Randy since Randy likes me as well. Although I kinda have been giving Joey hints I like him and even suggested I’d date him without directly saying if. I don’t think he got it though. Now my problem is that I don’t know what to do. I really like Joey and talking to him and I can tell he really likes me as well. But I also know Randy really likes me as well. Randy has been know to get really upset when it comes to relationships and if I admit to Joey my feelings for him then I’m worried Randy will get angry and it’ll ruin their friendship. I’d feel horrible for that as they’re best friends and have known each other since kindergarten. Also I would feel awful if me and Joey started dating, and Randy would always have to see us together. Randy is sweet but I just don’t like him. But with Joey I really do and like I’ve said he literally is the first person I’ve ever had romantic feelings for. What should I do? I don’t know if I should admit me feelings to Joey or just say nothing so it doesn’t hurt Randy. Me and Joey are going to the fair this weekend and if I ever will admit me feelings fir him then it’d be then. But I don’t wanna cause Randy any heartache and I’d just feel absolutely horrible. He’s really fragile and dealt with a bad breakup a couple months ago. What should I do?

    • 网络管理员

      网络管理员

      2019年7月11日在下午3:55

      乔伊和兰迪都有兴趣与您保持关系。他们的社会关系是基于他们的历史,看起来他们都对你感兴趣。似乎您需要决定您想要的未来。如果你的生活中有人想要与之保持关系,那么就与那个人说话的思想和感受。如果你不想滋养与任何人的浪漫关系,那么就可以与生活中的人保持友谊。有一个美好的一天,anon!

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        prefer

        September 14, 2019 at 1:22 pm

        嗨,我喜欢我的男人最好的朋友,他总是giving me signals that he might like me. For example, he always stares at me and he acts really nervous when people bring up our relationship. All of our friends ship us together and we both denied it. One of my friends then decided to say that I like him and he felt super bad said that he didn’t fell for me that way. So i spoke to him and said that I don’t like him just then things aren’t awkward.Everything was fine and we hung out and he only really stayed with me and when we were trying to scare people he targeted me most of the time and trying o tell me what he did and trying to get my attention by pulling on my arm. I got really confused at this point and thought maybe he jut likes me as a really close friend, Everyone says he likes me and he is giving the signals that he likes me but i don’t know what to believe. What should I do and believe?

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          网络管理员

          September 14, 2019 at 9:49 pm

          他的行为是他对你的感情的表现。他的紧张性表明他对你的真实感受。你告诉他你对你关系的想法和感受。肯定是他喜欢你。决定你的觉得是合适的,与他交谈你的想法和感受。通过额外的时间在一起努力滋养这种关系。祝你有美好的一天,更喜欢!

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    匿名的

    2019年7月2日在上午1:01

    这个女孩知道我喜欢她甚至though she’s told me in the past that her sexuality is strictly straight & was a friend of mine until I had a long conversation with her one night.. I told her I knew what thing she was hiding which was her being confused on liking girls & admitted she is but then a couple of days went by, our out of nowhere she tells me she can’t have me in her life physically & mentally so I backed off to be respectful. BUT then she Dm’s me saying why I haven’t looked at her posts lately & told her I thought she wanted me out of her life. She tells me she strictly likes males only & at this point I honestly only wanted to help as a friend to figure out her sexuality because I knew deep down she’s in denial & not being honest with herself. I then told her goodbye since she never answered why she cared if out of everyone she follows on social media, she told me specifically why I hadn’t been in some sort of contact with her. I never block anyone on social media but I had to with her because I’m hoping she realizes what real friend I have treated her like & did everything to help her through the mental breakdowns, honest advice, & actually cared for her physical health as well but I don’t know how to feel at the moment. Sometimes I feel like calling her & most of the time I remind myself she needs to save herself from starting to be honest for once. Am I in the wrong of blocking her on social media? I don’t have her blocked on my phone just in case she actually realizes her actions but she’s sooo stubborn.

    • 网络管理员

      网络管理员

      July 2, 2019 at 5:42 pm

      听起来好像她伸出援手,想要你看看她的帖子。这表明她以某种方式吸引了你。你决定阻止她。这似乎并不是她想要的,但这是你所做的决定。让她的想法褪色,并将你的情绪能量聚焦在其他地方。如果她将来与你联系,那么随后与她谈论你当时的想法和感受。有一个美好的一天,anon!

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